Top 10 List of Do’s and Don’ts for Men In Relationship

Most of us who have been intimately involved with someone beyond the infatuation stage know that relationships are like a rollercoaster ride. When things are good, they are very, very good. When things are bad, they are very, very bad. As if u are seeing this, I have developed Top 10 List of things to do and not to do in relationships.


  • Just listen to your partner without offering advice.
  • Trust and respect her.
  • Treat her as an equal partner in your relationship.
  • Stay and support her when she gets emotional. She is looking for understanding, not solutions.
  • Continue your courtship even after she’s committed to you. Continue to create romance in your relationship.
  • Do little things on a regular basis. A woman doesn’t care if you call her at work to say, “I love you” or if you buy a new TV for the living room. The small things are worth just as much as the big ones.
  • Honor any agreements you have made with her.
  • Encourage her goals and direction.
  • Find out what your partner would like to do and then do it with her.
  • Say, “I’m sorry” when you’ve done something you regret or that was hurtful to your partner, whether intentionally or unintentionally.


  • Go to bed angry with your partner.
  • Try to offer advice or solutions when your partner just needs you to listen to her without comment.
  • Pretend to listen to her when you really aren’t.
  • Shut your partner out when you need to sort things out in your head. Just explain you need space, you aren’t angry with your partner and that you’ll be back.
  • Criticize your partner, especially her appearance.
  • Yell at your partner as if you were her father.
  • Take every word she says literally. Women, when upset, tend to speak in absolutes, such as “You NEVER listen to me;” when what she really means is that you aren’t listening to her at that time.
  • Allow jealousy to erode the trust, love and respect of your relationship.
  • Violate her privacy.
  • Forget special occasions.

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